Confidence Will Certainly Get You Laid

One of the most important things to get you laid is confidence. These days it may also be referred to as your swagger. It’s not always just about how you look that makes you attractive, but being confident in yourself can make you irresistible.

Confidence is projected when you start a relationship or just a conversation with a relaxed state of mind and without needing the things to become anything more that what it is. It’s about knowing what you like and what you don’t like and not being afraid to share that. You have to be comfortable with yourself, your goals and your values. When your on your date or meeting a new person, don’t be overly concerned about that person liking you but how much you may or may not like them. One of the things about confidence is knowing that you are worthwhile and worthy of their attention. Now don’t mix that up with being arrogant, because that can get you in trouble. Arrogance will immediately make you unattractive.

Confidence is projected from your body language, how you talk, the way that you walk, and how you dress. Ladies, nothing will get a guys attention quicker than a strong, sexy walk. Now don’t over do it because that will make you seem desperate for attention. A good thing to keep in mind when walking is to keep your back straight, shoulders back and one foot in front of the other. Add some heels to the mix and you will be unstoppable. Try to always smile, when you smile you feel good and others will notice your good mood. That will also make you more approachable and easy to talk to.

Usually when you start a conversation it takes on a natural flow…go with that. It will take a lot of the unnecessary guesswork out of what you should say next.

It seems that people’s ability to feel confident can be sabotaged by the “what if” game. “What if there is something wrong with me” or “What if I I’m not interesting enough”, when playing this game people never think that about the chance that something could be wrong with the other person or the simple fact that different people are attracted to a wide variety of people for different reasons. The rejection process that takes place early in a relationship is less of a reflection of someone’s personal worth and more so a statement of the other person’s preference. So the next time things don’t work out, try not to take it personally.